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Do You Get Off On Top?
Chapter 2
Aside from the above listed benefits, there are other reasons that
the woman on top position is so popular. A prime factor is the fact
that you are face to face and can make eye contact with your partner.
Most couples enjoy watching each other during intercourse; in fact,
a major male fantasy component usually involves remembering what
his partner looks like during sex. Most men find it a source of
arousal, as do women, though perhaps to a lesser degree.
There is also a psychological reason why you may find it exhilarating
to practice this position. In most cases men are regarded as the
aggressors in the sexual relationship and the woman often plays
a more passive role. Many women find the dominant position of being
on top very exciting due to being totally in control. Many women
feel some sense of sexual release and are more likely to drop their
inhibitions as they are in charge of what happens. Also for the
man, it is a thrill to feel that a woman wants him enough to take
sexual control.
As most males are about 30% larger physically than females, this
position also makes sense because the smaller person is not bearing
the weight of the larger - a key concern if there are more significant
differentials involved or claustrophobic tendencies. The woman on
top position is also one of the few positions that is comfortable
or even feasible to perform during the latter stages of pregnancy.
If you are a woman who has difficulties with intercourse due to
lubrication or penis size issues, it is much more comfortable to
be in control of the sex act. The woman on top position has so many
advantages that it is cited by the majority of women and also by
a large portion of men as their favorite overall.
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