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Faking Orgasms
Chapter 3
Some essentials not commonly known to the majority of men you should
remember to relay include:
- Many women aren't able to reach orgasm 100% of the time. That's
just the way it is and men shouldn't pressure women into feeling
they must reach climax every single time. A woman should be able
to say to her partner that she is unable to reach orgasm without
experiencing negative comments from him.
- Due to reason #1, men shouldn't take it so personally and seriously
if their partner can't totally lose themselves in sex every single
time.
- Just because a woman isn't always able to experience an orgasm,
doesn't mean that she is not finding the experience rewarding
and fulfilling. She may still enjoy the intimacy of making love
and bringing pleasure to her partner.
Once you have figured out your own particular reason for faking
orgasms, you should work on correcting the situation. Try to open
lines of communication with your partner. If you can't attempt this,
you may wish to reconsider the validity of your relationship to
begin with. If you have difficulty reaching orgasm easily, ensure
you communicate what you find pleasing and what you do not, in order
that he might help you to achieve a genuine orgasm.
So, to sum up, don't fake orgasms! It isn't fair to you or your
partner, and besides, you are only cheating yourself - and what
would be the point of that?! Finally, remember - most men would
rather be made aware of areas to improve in than be lied to. They
really only want to please you - help give them the tools to do
it!
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