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Your Partner, Pornography and You
Chapter 2
Ok, so maybe you can accept the fact that he masturbates. The dishonesty
associated with his use of pornography still really bothers you.
So, would you rather he, in a proud and happy voice, exclaim "ok
sweetheart, I'm feeling a little horny now so I'm off to the bathroom
to masturbate to images of other women - can you make me a sandwich
for when I come out?"? Would you be equally candid in reference
to the content of your fantasies when the urge strikes you? Let's
face it, I don't think he'd be any more thrilled at the prospect
of learning you are going to have a bath and pleasure yourself while
dreaming about spreading oil all over the grocery clerk from down
the road.
So what do you do? I say don't sweat it. It's no big deal at all
and if you confront him, it will only serve as a source of embarrassment
for the two of you, both now and in future. Just feel glad that
your man is normal. In fact I'd be more concerned if I discovered
he didn't masturbate. If you find you can have a good (or
at least indifferent) attitude about masturbation as applies to
your partner, you will discover that perhaps you will have less
of a negative perception of the tools associated with the deed.
The preceding obviously has little to do with pornography addictions.
If you feel this might be the case, please read the following article.
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